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My cards keep describing your fiancé as an inverted King of Cups: One who secretly lusts for power, but lacks the courage, intellect, or work ethic necessary to take it. A charming seducer who appears innocent and understanding, but is in fact selfish and unfaithful. My readings also revealed over the course of time that you are an upright
King of Wands spreading good karma who consistently stayed that way even before you were introduced to the long distance man of your dreams, an upright
Queen of Pentacles, to which you both would have made a perfect yin-yang (陰&陽) ☯ couple. Your fiancé as an inverted King of Cups and you as a King of Wands makes your double king of card relationship a double yang-yang (陽&陽) couple and so it will never be balanced hence why your is fraught with a lot of petty bickering according to the card readings. He also makes his living by listening to other people's messed up emotions all day long so that is wearing him down and taxing his ability to be emotionally available to you who also is an emotionally needy person.
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The King of Cups Reversed
Major drama alert! When the King of Cups appears reversed, his shadow side is revealed. He is emotionally unavailable, insensitive, and immature. He acts on impulse with no thought to how his actions may affect anyone else. Moody and unpredictable, this guy is a chaotic storm coming through to disrupt everything in his path. Have you ever seen a rock star throw a tantrum and destroy a dressing room backstage because something did not go his way or the sound was off? That’s the energy right here. Watch out for this one, as he can be quite manipulative and insincere with his feelings.Quote
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My multiple tarot readings over the past couple of weeks regarding your marriage-to-be with your fiancé are full of back-to-back extremely mentally-torturing cards of swords that are all over the place. Your fiancé has been dishonest with his finances thus lacking transparency. His hidden ulterior motive for marriage is purely financial-motivated while deceiving you that it is really about love. My readings also suggest that in order for him not to reveal his secret (in order to protect his professional reputation) which he is hiding from you is that he is really a hypocrite on sexual addiction...so through your eyes, he will be exploiting your tunnel-vision blinded by "love" by cheating on you without you ever suspecting that he is capable of cheating on you...however he is one who can live with infidelity and deception within his conscience (unlike you according to your birthday) so this is a heads-up to you that he will weaponize his Psychology PhD to manipulate your emotional vulnerabilities and emotional dependence on him. My readings also confirms that you will be suffering even more emotionally after your marriage to to this guy because your sub-conscience will be yearning for your long distance true love who will reject any secret romantic advances from you once you are married to someone else. That true love will also refuse to communicate with you after you get a divorce. Your long distance true love has a genuine pure heart and does not care about your money nor needs it.
Bottom line is these multiple card readings reveal that your fiancé will play games of deception and mind games with you and you will never know how you were ever manipulated to get married and be entrapped in a situation that emasculates you. At least, you still have choices to make in the next several weeks and the wise thing to do is for you to postpone the wedding until you understand how you really benefit from it.
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Scott,
I had an opportunity to sample a glimpse of your fiancé book and based on his writing style I have concluded that he is an incredibly boring person. No wonder you feel so punished. To be tortured by your partner's exceptionally boring personality is a death sentence. If you are going to publish a book then you need to write like Laurie Garrett and grab the attention of your reader in your first sentence. It looks like people will only purchase his book if he goes on tour fulltime with only a handful of people clapping in the end. It is too bad his style of clothing does not compliment your style of clothing. The way he wears his clothes shouts "Look at me, I'm so boring."
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The difference between an Ox and a Bull is that one will be domesticated and castrated by it's master after it no longer serves it's purpose.
If your marriage eventually forces you to find physical affection with the cootie-harboring rentboys on the street corners of West Hollywood, you will unforgivingly hate yourself even more until you die by suicide for having to keep your infidelity a secret and always having to sneak away "on business" causing you to chronically violate your marriage contract in secret. This legally favors this masterminding psychologist in divorce court so he literally has got you by the balls that you willingly will surrender to him on May 4 when you tie the knot [no pun intended]. Some people can live with infidelity on their conscience but according to your birthday, you can't...and your infidelity will torture your soul with depression which you can't reveal to your psychologist partner because you have too much to lose such as your reputation, dignity, and assets as your guilt and shame will follow you into your next life like a never ending karmic cycle. Your partner believes he is "helping" you when he is actually "destroying" you by undermining your human nature with his expertise as a scholar on sexual addiction. Instead of receiving the gift that keeps on giving, you will self-impose a shame that keeps on shaming and that will offset every karmic gains from all the donated time and thousands of dollars you already gave unselfishly to charity.
As an Ox, I'd run for the hills while you still can. But as a Bull, I'd stay away from a china shop because you already have been checkmated...game over.
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Scott,
I forgot to mention that your specific birthday makes you uniquely hyper-sexual and that you can't thrive or be inspired without that special touch whereas your fiancé, the psychologist, has his entire career (based on his webpage) banking on de-sexualizing his patients so I can only predict that he isn't meeting your needs of sexual health thinking that you need help with "addiction" therapy not realizing that you will wither on the vine because your physical desires isn't an addiction but the very core essence that defines your mental and healthy well-being according to your birthday. It's ironic that he is also a marriage counselor and doesn't realize your physical needs are paramount for a happy marriage. It baffles me as to why you even accepted his proposal for a future of a sexless marriage because it is all down hill for you after you tie the knot. You are being manipulated by a mastermind and you will never be happy with this prince charming because he will medically justify weaponizing sex with him to gain concessions. As far as the wedding, the longer you delay cancelling it, the more expensive it will get for everyone especially for those who have to make travel arrangements to attend the last day of your freédom.
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As an Ox, it will be impossible to Be Your Own Advocate if you are married to a Horse Psychologist:
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Based on Ancient Chinese Wisdom, you will spend the rest of your life together bickering and that will carry over in the bedroom, dining room, and living room, and bathroom... Unlike inspiration, desperation is not a valid reason to get married.
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To my Ox friend in Long Beach:
Horses are financially irresponsible. If your horse fiancé is rushing you to get married, he won't reveal his financial debt bomb to you until after the wedding, therefore his debt bomb will become your debt bomb. You will need to sell your second and third home to keep your little pony happy especially since his book reviews on Amazon isn't gaining any traction as if his book was DOA since it was published. And if you truly love him, then you deserve him for richer or poorer, to death do you part. You know he is broke when he couldn't afford $1 to make a donation to your cause. At least, you can one-up all your happily married friends by proudly parading your trophy horse since your horse (or IMHO: a high maintenance white elephant) will be able to one-up all his happily married friends for successfully bagging a sugar daddy like putting an Ox in a Box.
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No offense to horses, but I just had lunch with one and this is my report card for horses. My first impression of horses are loud, self-centered, obnoxious, know-it-all, arrogant, argumentative, lacks refinement, energy zapping, and caring to the point of suffocation.
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If you were born in the Year of the Ox, then you will regret marrying someone born in the Year of the Horse according to Chinese Astrology which suggests a successful union with Rat, Snake or Rooster as better matches.
I would like to hear personal stories that proves or disproves the recommendation by Chinese Astrology birthday match.